"Heaven is at your Mother's feet"
As we all know that Islam is a religion that respects the woman and gave her all her rights and from those rights is how to be treated when she is a mother.
Islam ordered us to respect and treat our parents and never to shout at them for any reason,ordered never to disobey them except when they order us to do something that is forbidden by God and still we must treat them kindly and respect our relationship with them.God also put our obedience towards parents as a second priority after his almighty obedience to express how important it is,and also told us that our good deeds will not be accepted unless our parents are all satisfied with us.Islam gave the first priority of obedience to the mother application to the saying(Hadith)of prophet Mohammed(PBUH)that says:
Someone went to Mohammed(PBUH)and asked him "Who has the first priorty to be well treated?"
Prophet Mohammed answered him "your mother",
He asked "then who?"
He(PBUH)answered"your mother"
Asked agin"then who?"
He (PBUH)answered "your mother"
Asked "then who?"
Mohammed answered(PBUH)"your father".
Prophet Mohammed answered him "your mother",
He asked "then who?"
He(PBUH)answered"your mother"
Asked agin"then who?"
He (PBUH)answered "your mother"
Asked "then who?"
Mohammed answered(PBUH)"your father".
This is to show how important and precious mother is in Islam and how respectable her status is.Islam gave the mother this status because:
1-Only God knows how do mother feel tired and sick during the pregnancy period.
2-The pain the mother bears during the delivery.
3-The breast feeding.
4-Who bears us when we are sick and stay up late for us? Mothers.
5-Mothers have more patience on their children more than anybody else.
2-The pain the mother bears during the delivery.
3-The breast feeding.
4-Who bears us when we are sick and stay up late for us? Mothers.
5-Mothers have more patience on their children more than anybody else.
Many and many reasons that makes mothers in a very high status in Islam as Mohammed(PBUH)told us anther(Hadith)that says " Heaven is under Mothers' feet".See how high and respectable the mothers are that God put the heaven under their feet?
We all know that we may have conflicts or disagreements with our mothers but Islam still order us that we must have the better part of the relationship and have mercy on them even if they give us hard times,they bared us alot and got tired from us alot as the Holy Quran versus said"oh God, have mercy on them as they brought me up when I was little."Thats how Islam ordered us to deal with our parents and especially our mothers.
When our mothers prayed for us it is one of the accepted prayers from God that's because God knows it is true and pure, so we must try to make all our mothers prayers good for us and I believe that no mother could pray a bad prayer for her son whatever he did, because that's how the mother is.
And an important point is that our lives are short and our mothers are too,so we must take advantage of every second we are with them because Mohammed (PBUH) told us a (Hadith) that says:
"When somebody's mother dies,an angel call him in the upper skies and tell him
"oh son of Adam(call his name),the first one and last one that loves you is died" and then all the angels feel sorry for him/her."
So you must all use the chance to collect good prayers and warm hugs from our mothers before you are called in the upper skies.
As personal experience I feel very sad if I hurt my mother or if I do anything that upsets her,because I have so much respect for her I regret it the next second it happens.(May Allah (SWT) and my mother forgive me. We just dont realize how special they are until they leave us.
Please brothers and sisters make the most of it by being their for your mothers and by respecting them.
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